I agree entirely, and this hit incredibly close to home.
At this point, I don't have the money, or the time, to fly down for 2-3 days for excellent synoptic setups, on short notice, because a flight from Southern Ontario will cost me a fortune; not including any other expenses. Driving and forecasting for a tour group allows me to head down to the Plains for 2+ weeks at a major discount, but the trade off is absolutely no flexibility on dates. I'll be down south from May 18th to June 3rd-ish. We tend to pick the last two weeks of May for climatology puposes, but as everyone here knows, no guarantees. May 26th in Colorado pretty much saved my two weeks last year, as the second week was pulse storms and working on my tan.
Last year, I watched every single model run update leading up to my take off date, and all I got from it was anxiety.
This year, as much as I still check this thread for the incredible wealth of knowledge (working on my teleconnections knowledge), I only check model runs every few days, and I feel much better. As a bit of a control freak, it does feel strange saying that.
I'm not very impressed with what I've been seeing so far for my weeks synoptically, but I suppose it can change a bit. As Quincy stated, there will likely be some diamonds in the rough. Structure and lightning is still great for me (90% of Ontario storms are rain wrapped messes), so as long as blue sky isn't the only sight, I'll be content.