FYI: FOLKS: IN THE JEWISH RELIGION WE HAVE A MOURNING PERIOD CALLED "SHIVA". It is customary not to send flowers to the family but to instead, send a meal or some food for the family to eat...or to make a monetary donation where the family asks.
Shiva is a religious service that usally takes place at the family's house. It is open to friends and familt of any religion. It is the time to pay your respects to the family and to help them grieve.
If anyone is in the KCMO area (or where they live), I suggest that you consider stopping by (making a "Shiva Call") as we say. This is a great way to honor Eric and to support the family. Again...any religious background is welcome. While we have jewish prayers and say kind words, all friends and religions are welcome.