Paralyzing
Thank you Amos for posting this to Stormtrack. I believe this to categorically be the right thing to do. Eric's close friends - and acquaintences through chasing - need a table to which to bring their grief, their sorrow and their appreciation for this extraordinay person.
What has happened to Eric struck very close to home for me and is paralyzing. Jason is a great friend of Eric's, and the news hit us the day after it happened like a slow, agonizing, pealing thunderbolt. After we went through the denial, the disbelief and the why's and wheretofores, we were left with the knowledge that chasing will never mean the same to us ever again.
I had met and laughed and spoken with Eric on several occasions. At parties, at weddings, and - the chaser's forte - on the side of the road while wondering if we were missing a nighttime wedge in the middle of Kansas, as the inflow warmed our backs and whipped the sea of long grass about our ankles. He was so intelligent, so level-headed, and posessed the dry sense of humor that the Brits would die for over here in the U.S. He would frequently have me doubled-over with hysterics while a few around us wondered just what the joke was. His fascination with a liter bottle of Sprite during my Hogmanay party was always something I wondered about and smiled back on with fondness.
With my experience in the mental health field - I at once understand and lament what Eric has been going through. The "Silent Epidemic" is what it is called. To see someone so vibrant, so clever, so effervescent be failed by the system is just devastating to me.
I will always know Eric Nguyen as the Chaser who was Always There. It didn't matter whether it was dry LPs near Ft. Stockton, TX. or a bowing squall out by Spearfish, SD......if you had a love of chasing and a love of the open road - Eric was one who echoed your passion, and whose vehicle mirrored your own along those lonely, perfect, quintessential stretches of American highway that we all patrol.
I am so very sorry for this tragedy - for Eric, his family, his children, and for his close friends in chasing who I am trying my best to help through this terrible situation. Please, everybody - love those around you like today is your last chance to. It is the least we owe to each other. It is with tears creeping down my cheeks that I write this. My homepage at Stormskies will remain dormant as I try to come to terms with what has happened.
I don't have any photos to hand of Eric, unfortunately, but I believe Jason will be along shortly to post some great ones of his that he has.
We all chase the same castles in the sky.