Drew Terril
Staff member
Cal Newport has some good advice in “Digital Minimalism”, if only the addicted would read it: Get off SM, fill your life with other things that interest you (OK, head start there - severe weather and storm chasing!) and then use technology not for its own sake (i.e. SM scrolling to kill time or fill a void in your life) but only to the extent it supports your interests. Which should lead them to ST (and other niche forums) if they really take time to discern the best platform to indulge their interests.
There's a site that I write for on occasion that primarily revolves around being prepared for emergencies and being an asset rather than a liability. But two of the big undercurrents of things that we write about involve adventures and in being active in your community. Both of which seems to be a lost art in the SM world. I see it at the Legion, I see it at church, I see it even in my neighborhood. People love scrolling through the adventures of "influencers" (I despise that term tbh), but never take adventures of their own.
I have met people via SM, but there is a much longer list of friends that I got close to via some of the old forums that I've been on over the years (especially car forums). Some of those forums don't exist at all anymore, but several of us have been able to stay in touch over the years.
I was very fortunate when I got into the ham radio world to have mentors that took it upon themselves to take me under their wing and show me the ropes. Some of those have unfortunately passed (and I think another one of them is probably close to that himself), but several are still around and I can (and do) still go to them with any questions I have about things. As I've gotten older, and I think in part due to the example they showed me, I've found an immense joy in paying that forward and mentoring others. That's part of why I started writing for the site I alluded to earlier in this post. I've also found enjoyment in helping chasers (who are willing) learn about cars and how to do more of their own maintenance and minor work. I don't just do the work for them, but I help them through it. I've grown to enjoy that serving aspect of life, and am very fortunate to have a significant other who not only appreciates that, but encourages and supports it.