Drew Terril
Staff member
Ironically, since the last time I posted in this thread, I left Oklahoma to move to Indiana. I was never in a position living in Oklahoma to "chase everything." When I had a job that allowed me flexibility to chase, I was too broke to take advantage of it. Then, when I did have money, I didn't have the flexibility. To earn that income, I had to be on the road quite a bit, so I took an opportunity where I'm now home every night and I can have something resembling a life. The primary reasons I moved back to Oklahoma are no longer applicable. Most of my folks out there are gone now, and while Oklahoma will always be home, I was able to leave on my own terms this time and I'm at a peace that I never would have thought possible.
First year and a half were still rough after I moved to IN, but things have really fallen into place and I'm in the best spot (as far as overall life balance) that I've ever been in. Would I love to chase more? Sure. But at this point, I'm not willing to sacrifice the life balance that I have for the first time in my adult life (I'm 37 now) to make that happen. Between my time in the military (juggling a civilian career for much of that time as well when I was in the Reserves), factory work with a ton of overtime, and then OTR trucking, I burned the candle from both ends from 18 to 35. I never realized how badly I needed some semblance of balance in my life until I actually had it.
First year and a half were still rough after I moved to IN, but things have really fallen into place and I'm in the best spot (as far as overall life balance) that I've ever been in. Would I love to chase more? Sure. But at this point, I'm not willing to sacrifice the life balance that I have for the first time in my adult life (I'm 37 now) to make that happen. Between my time in the military (juggling a civilian career for much of that time as well when I was in the Reserves), factory work with a ton of overtime, and then OTR trucking, I burned the candle from both ends from 18 to 35. I never realized how badly I needed some semblance of balance in my life until I actually had it.