Adam Lucio
EF5
I dunno, Adam...after seeing Rob's "uncut" version of the drill sergeant on FB, I almost feel like the guy here is paying me a compliment.
In response to your comment, first, I hate making things more complex than they need to be. Bearing that in mind, I decided to toss the idea out on the table anyway and see where it went. My reasoning is that some infractions carry punitive weight to them, and they should, while others are merely corrective. Thus, from what I can see, not all infractions are equal; yet presently they're all lumped under one negative-sounding term.
Now factor in the different levels of maturity represented on this forum along with people's differing views on what it actually means to get slapped with an infraction--a term I can't find defined or even mentioned in the FAQs/rules (did I miss something?)--and I find myself thinking that it might be helpful to separate between the severe-sounding term and something more positive.
I don't see this approach as capitulating to thin-skinned people. I see it as serving both members and staff by adding a communication option that can give moderators an extra diplomatic edge while still using infractions for actions that call for a firm slap on the wrist, particularly for repeat offenders who ought to know better.
I think you know that I am NOT for coddling bad behavior. I like that this forum articulates and enforces its rules, even when I'm the guy who gets infracted for screwing up. But I think that having an extra, more positive-sounding term on hand can serve both members and moderators by clarifying that some correction is just correction, not a penalty.
For that matter, though, I suppose the mods could at their discretion just PM a person. I had that happen recently. I screwed up and got a note from a mod advising me that I'd crossed protocol. No infraction issued, just a course correction that I needed and appreciated. There's more than one way to get the job done, and one of the virtues of good moderators is their ability to make appropriate judgment calls.
I see the reasoning behind it, I mean, it can be renamed to whatever anyone would want to call it but the end result would be the same unless the point system itself is revised.
Ive always been a subscriber to the "tough love" class when it comes to discipline, thats just me. IMO it is the only way people learn. The second you get soft is when people think they can walk all over you.
Im not trying to be a dick, just debating is all.