One thing for sure, never expect a textbook behavioral pattern with a storm, always expect something new.
Ditto!
I would add to also expect the unexpected. Always keep an escape route handy if you do need to hightail it out of there. I always know what my road options are to the east and to the south and adjust my position to the storm relative to my escape options.
But, back to the original question of this thread is the best position for chasing a storm, but Chris refers to a spotting position. These are two different strategies in my opinion with the need for a margin of safety greater for spotters in general. It also has alot to do with a storm's forward speed.
If a storm is hauling butt at 40mph or more, I've seen 3-5 miles get chewed up quickly. You gotta play leap frog alot and end up doing ALOT more driving than observing. Things change much more rapidly and you've got to stay on your toes.
If it is a slow mover like June storms usually are, then 3-5 miles is perfectly safe and probably too far away. Then I'd say 1-2 miles....but being very observant of the storm getting HP and becoming an HP bowling ball picking up forward momentum rapidly. Again...gott a have those escape routes.
I personally like to be at a 45 degree angle to the storm's movement. I use the angle measurement because a storm's motion isn't always going to be the same during it's life span, especially deviant moving supercells. Storms don't always move NE and can even move due S. A note here too...DO NOT TRUST the "indicated movement" of a storm by radar or what is heard in the warning text. That is only determined by the storms PREVIOUS motions. Use your own eyes by by watching the storm evolve or by watching a radar loop. I've heard a few frustrated chasers out there mumble about "well, the warning said it was moving NE at 20mph and I got cored while sitting SE of it!". LOL!!
Of course, if you are wanting the "safest" viewing angle, it should be a 90 degree angle to storm motion and 3-10 miles away depending on the storm's forward speed.
My $0.02