Matt,
You aren't the only one I had heard about this from. One of my friends lives in Woodbury and had mentioned the net meltdown to me.
While I think you have valid points, you also need to realize these are all volunteers, most likely doing their best. If you haven't offered to volunteer to help out, you should consider it.
I ran almost every Skywarn net here in the Lansing area in 2006 and 2007, and have to say, I was pretty burned out by the time August 07 rolled around. I was net control during the Potterville EF-3 tornado event which was also my third day in a row working a full day at work then running a net starting in the afternoon. The previous 2 nights I had run nets quite late, and had to be to work at 7am.
A lot of people criticized me after the tornado net, and I basically gave up. I don't think I've run a single net since that day. Was my net that day a mess? Somewhat. I lost power multiple times during the net due to the fact a tornado was ripping up the neighborhoods a mile or two north of me, and I had to run to my vehicle to grab my handheld to continue the net. I also made multiple phone calls to the city 911 center and was relaying reports through nwschat as well as acting net control all from my house.
I also had gone to bed when I got home from work that day as it appeared the storms were garbage. I woke up to the weather radio going off.
The bottom line is that I didn't run things as well as they probably should have been, but I was the only one volunteering to help out with my time. Criticism, no matter how valid, is what ultimately made me never want to be acting net control again if I didn't have to be. Instead of writing a huge critical blog, maybe your time would be better spent offering help?
Just a thought