I'm not disagreeing with you there, that's the only way still today to bring out the milky way. You can see it, the camera can see it, but it's bland and not too appealing
Digital cameras have come a way to where astrophotography, especially milky way photos are becoming easier and more doable. But, even still you really can't do anything with the photo without tweaking it. Just the way it is now. The RAW photos are boring, they need to be edited.
I came across a tutorial on youtube that shows a way to get the milky way, even in heavily light polluted areas. Basically just expose to the right by about two or three steps....yeah it'll blow it way out, but like every other milky way shot, post processing is where a lot of work is to be done.
If I'm out at night in Topeka next May, I'll give it a shot and see what I can do.
And as far as getting the moon and milky way, it's not something I've done before...in the same frame that is. It'd be tricky because the moon moves a lot more than the stars do, so it'd be tough to keep it sharp. The moon would be the focus point, and the milky way just very subtle just to add some detail into the photo. I like to stay away from heavily altering photos like cutting and pasting other things into the shot...superimposing, whatever it is because it's not real. I like keeping them as real as they can be. So shooting the milky way in one day, then two weeks later after the new moon and shooting the full moon, and dropping it into a frame for a picture of the milky way just isn't an option.
Just getting a subtle bit of it in would be what I would go for....but tonight it's not even going to be in the right area of the sky, even by the time the milky way rises...so maybe I'll give it a try in 2033 lol